General

It's not THAT worrisome. A lot of people have fetishes/kinks they won't speak of in real-life. FAism is only one of them.

Don't worry on fat that much. Go out and have a good time with whomever seems nice.

I've always said we should wear a secret pin, like a smaller circle on top of a bigger one, or something. That way we could recognize each other...

Being an FA for me is very easy I have been one most of my life when I see a woman who presents herslef as proud of how she looks I will make sure I tell her you look very lovely many of my lady friends are 300+ and I have no problem defending their honor when having to deal with small minded people haven't ever really cared for thin people they just don't seem real